Well, it's official folks. The Christmas shopping is underway. I know it's way too early to even be mentioning Christmas but..I'm kinda thinking I want to actually enjoy my Christmas this year and maybe even throw a party and have time to decorate, rather than running around shopping.
With my large family, plus a few extended family members and friends plus Hubs family plus Hubs and my own gift exchange, it amounts to a whole lot of presents. Every year we end up budgeting well over $1000 between all the gifts for everyone else and the gifts we give each other. Seem excessive? It always feels like it is...
The fact is, when you break it down, it comes out to be around $50 bucks a person for family and about half that for close friends...which doesn't buy too much if you're trying to avoid trinkets and get what they actually need/want (we're not even talking video games here, we're talking slippers, clothes and other quality stuff).
In my family, Christmas has always been where you got a lot of your needs met. You need a new coat and don't have one that fits to get you through the winter? Well, you hoped Christmas would come through for you, my family definitely never had the budget to even go out to the thrift store and get a nice one unless there was a dire need. There might be a few "fun" gifts from my parents if there weren't too many "needs" for the child that year, but toys and video games came from my grandparents, if you got them at all.
Hubs and I try to always strike a balance between meeting the needs and getting them something nice that maybe my parents wouldn't get them (but still something my parents would approve of). For example, if they need slippers, we'll get them a nice pair of LLBean slippers, rather than the cheaper ones that fall apart in a year from Kohls. Or if one of them has been dying for a Ravens jersey or Red Sox shirt, we might try and search around to find a good deal on that.
While we budget around $50 per person, I always try to capitalize on sales and doubled-up discounts so that while the original cost might have been around $50, I'll end up paying much less than that. If I get a really good deal on it (last year I scored my sister a pair of shoes for $3), I'll buy the recipient some extras to at least get in the $30 range, but most of the time, it just gives us extra cushion in the budget and hopefully more money back in savings at the end of the year/holiday.
Last year my credit card also had a really really good reward points program if I clicked through their site (sort of like ebates). I was able to get a ton of bonus points that could be turned in for cash. We ended up getting back well over $300 of what we spent on Christmas gifts, which was fantastic! The rewards program isn't as good this year, so this year I'm making the switch over to ebates. I know ebates has been talked about all over the Internet, I've known about it for years, but up to this point just let my account sit dormant. After using it a bit and seeing the ease, I highly highly recommend it!
My goal for this year is to do even better than last year. So many retailers have been offering such awesome promotions this year, I've really been trying to keep an eye out for the really
good ones. Here are a few amazing promotions that I've been able to take advantage of:
1. Gap has routinely been offering 25-40% off all items (including sale), if you stack that online with the current 8% cash back from ebates, you're looking at close to 50%off. I took advantage of a 30% off promo with an 8% cash back during no tax weekend here (6% for us) so that was somewhere in the ball park of 42% off. I also bought the gap groupon for the $50 giftcard for $25, so that was an instant 50% off. I highly recommend their flannel shirts, jean leggings, blazers and mittens. I bought several of their men's flannel shirts for myself and Hubs for part of our anniversary gift to ourselves and they are the best flannel shirts I've found anywhere! And we checked everywhere under the sun.
2. Under Armour sent me a survey and offered me a $15 giftcard for taking it (no strings attached), this combined with 6% cashback (ebates) and free shipping offered a nice 36% discount on another gift for Christmas.
3. Piperlime has been offering some fantastic promos lately, up to 25% off in fact! Today they are offering 20% off with code "style20" and if you go through ebates it's double cash back at 8%! I definitely took advantage of this deal as soon as I saw it!
4. JCrew sent me a 25% off card in the mail, I waited until several in-store promotions were going on (30% off sweaters, $10 off cords, $10 off sherpa hoodies) and was able to stack the promotions on top of each other for sizable discounts on several items. Currently they are running a 20% off promo with code "shopfall"!
5. The Limited has been running constant promos and I've really been loving the brand refreshing they've done. Right now they offering 30% off select items, plus 20% off your whole order (code "321") plus 2.5% cash back from ebates.
6. Lands End (Canvas) has been offering near constant promos of up to 40% off, this combined with free shipping, 6% cash back from ebates and no tax weekend got me close to a 50% discount on a large order of basics for Hubs.
7. Williams Sonoma sent me a survey and offered up a $20 giftcard for ten minutes of my time. I plan to spend a few more dollars and pick up a nice gift for someone with this.
8. Endless is offering 20% off boots, 25% off flats plus 7.5% cash back.
9. And I've scored three Anthropologie items at more than 60% off for two of my sisters.
I'm pretty pleased with how quickly I've been able to cross several individuals off my list, I even have tubs that I've started filling to tuck away with gifts until Christmas. I am determined to enjoy Christmas this year you guys! I'm especially looking forward to the baking, I think it's one of my favorite family traditions!
Has anyone else started their Christmas shopping? Any great gift ideas you'd care to share? I'm always looking for new ideas! And for any of you who need a little help in the shopping department, stay tuned because tomorrow, I have a fantastic giveaway to help jump start your holiday shopping!
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